On the finances, I've been telling you you need to get something solid in place, but you worried about having to give visitation rights.
I'm emotionally wrung out and can't give you accurate advice. From day one I was giving support and seeing my girls as much as possible. I think it's time to see the L again and if you are still dead set against filing for D then getting a legal separation.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
