If anyone has any suggestions on a WAS that is in hurry to end it, I would love to hear them. Especially any tactics I could use to get him to slow down.

My story

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10