Don't know where to post this.

[MichelleLT]

Change things up. Tell her you are taking the kids somewhere. Or take the kids to your apt for a while. If you guys do get D you won't be going over to the house all the time to see the kids, you will have unsupervised custody of them a good chunk of the time.

Don't always let it be on her terms. If she thinks she wants D, let her see what it'll be like to have that empty house all to herself while you have fun with the kids.