After your STBXH gets the legal papers, be prepared for hearing some huge BS from him on the phone. Remember that there is a hangup button.
I think too far to the future...but how will you feel if and when your XH starts a new relationship with another woman?
I mean, you felt you were conned by him early on in your marriage...what if the new lady he meets is a bit naive...would you feel compelled to warn her of his true nature? It seems like a real dilemma - on one hand you should butt out of your XH's personal life, but on the other hand, it does not seem right to allow another woman to experience abuse.