Being skeptical (of everything) works. Truth survives skepticism.
Has anyone read these words: "I never thought I would be here.....please help" "There are red flags that your spouse is in an A" "I don't believe my spouse is having an A. I trust my spouse."
Then farther along in the thread : "O my god! I just found out my spouse is having an A"
That is why it is important not to believe anything they say. Their consistent actions will tell the truth. That is why you believe only half of what they do.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712