Haha! Yes, 180.....Too funny...when I think of 360 I think how the person has to move farther and that somehow seemed better...But, I definitely didn't mean for him to come right where he started (unless, however, he made changes along the way to start over). I'm still laughing.
Hoping's wife says, "I dont know what I want."
Hoping says, "I want you. I want our marriage. I will fight for it because it is worth fighting for. I'll wait for you, I'll work with you, but I won't enable your affair."
I noticed my H's changes immediately, but believing them took a long time....even now, takes me a long time to believe him with certain things. It's like I made myself build a wall, to protect my feelings and to make it "ok" that I was having an affair, and it takes a while to let me break it down to let him "in".
No matter what she does, until you are divorced, it is not over (and I've even heard couples getting back together after a divorce). Eventually her fantasy will become reality. If she doesn't realize it early, she will find out on her own. I have no doubt. This is not an easy process.
