About the debit card--I did think that if you kept it even pst 2/15 then X might wonder if you did something with it. But how to get the OW to change her address??? It seems like fraud in some way.
About working on the set. I'm sorry that it would be too hard for you at this time. How often would you be seeing him? Part of me wonders if it could be a good thing to work on something the two of you used to do when you were together, like it could remind X of why he fell in love with you. Just brainstorming. But if it would be too painful for you then definitely don't do it!
Will there be another project in the fall? You will be in a better place by then....
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
