This is probably hands down what saved me from being legally D'd. Since then although it has been a long ride, things have slowly been improving between me and my W. No reconciliation yet, but no more fighting and anger from her.
K4D
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...