Upside - I am glad you reached out to him. I know that no matter what, it must be a load off of your shoulders, and you must feel better now that you have let him know how you feel. It is up to him now, and hopefully he understands that and wants to make a change.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12