yes, I want to find the balance of her being inconvenienced and having to call the bank. The bank says: we sent it to Y address.


They they both know that I have/had it and did "something" with it.

Don't know if that is good or bad.

It's probably just poisoning my house,though. Maybe I will just get it out sooner rather than later.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process