but, the nice gift thing...remember, if someones love language is gifts, then no matter what they buy is important, and most likely they will want to spend more money because that is how they receive and give love.
Mindful, I think sandy is right that what happened seems appropriate for where the sitch is. Obviously we all would want more, and it is hard to compare what used to be, especially since those vaca's meant a lot to you.
what happened to my idea of send a sexy pic and no gift!?
IMHO, don't do any ILYs unless he does it first. But, I think him getting you a gift and acknowledging the anni is a very good thing.
focus on the little positives, not on what is lacking. (((Mind)))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
