Hi all - please help. I would love to think about resuming, if possible, a friendship w my H. What is the best way to do this?
I just wrote him a sample letter (along the lines of Dobson) about him being 'free to go'. It felt a bit liberating although I am still so sad about the unraveling of our M. Don't plan to send, just wrote down. I know I cannot hold him against his will. I just need to stop the self-blame cycle which is so destructive. Lately I've felt like such a bad person, about the hurting things I did and said. That's a hard pill to swallow when you examine things about yourself that you really don't like.
