So what do I do with this? How do I handle it and is there any way to help lift the FOG? Also I think she is pretty intent on trying to go to her parents should I speak with her father after I gather my intel about EA? How should I act...She. makes a BIG deal on making sure that I act like I will be her best friend but then she is VERY cruel at the same time. Do I just keep doping what I have been and planned on?
This stood out for me. I was the one having the affair in my relationship, hopingforhope32. What you are describing was how I was. She is not thinking clear....she doesn't know what to think because her feelings are all mixed up....She's mad at you for what you haven't done for her that she had to get on the internet, but she loves you and wanted YOU to be that one. She probably feels helpless like there is nothing she can do....
It's good she is coming home. YOu have a chance to show her your changes consistently. There will no longer be the excuse, "He stopped trying, so I did too." Do you have children?
