K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

Actually Kevin, I think you're doing much better lately. You're doing a pretty good job of walking the fine line between maintaining a friendly relationship and still giving her a taste of the way things would be if/when you were to get divorced. Keep enforcing healthy boundaries and detachment and yet leave the door open for reconcilation. Do not push it though. If it's going to happen let it happen naturally and with her initiation or it won't be real. Nobody said this was easy!!!

Thanks Drew,

I appreciate it. I forgot to mention that we discussed taxes yesterday also. She wants to get started on them as soon as the forms are in. I agreed. She asked if I cared whether we did joint or separate. I said lets do whatever returns the most money. She agreed.

I am going to let it happen naturally Drew. I am on board with that. I actually don't expect to see her or hear from her again for another week or so. But that is ok as I have enough on my plate with trying to land another job.

Kevin