Just one caution though, and I purposely put this in a separate post ....

Be aware that there could be setbacks or pitfalls ahead. Many WAW's are nice to their STBXH's to assuage their guilt and have a "nice" divorce. I'm not saying that's what's happening here, I just want you to be realistic and keep up your PMA no matter what happens. She will test you to see if the changes you are making are real. Don't try to guess her motivations, just keep working on yourself.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.