Actually Kevin, I think you're doing much better lately. You're doing a pretty good job of walking the fine line between maintaining a friendly relationship and still giving her a taste of the way things would be if/when you were to get divorced. Keep enforcing healthy boundaries and detachment and yet leave the door open for reconcilation. Do not push it though. If it's going to happen let it happen naturally and with her initiation or it won't be real. Nobody said this was easy!!!
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
