Oh, another glaring difference. I have been with my H for 5 years and have seen him drunk ONE time on our first date because he was sooooo nervous. Now he spends practically every night at a bar. This kills me because he could never cut loose like that out with our friends before and now it's the only behavior he knows. He also had a prescription for pain killers for kidney stones that he has ALL the time. He took 60 pills in 30 days. I couldn't believe it!!!