CTH, I did the same thing about the same time as you did. I just couldn't do it anymore. It was killing me. I was spending 1 hour with my IC plus 1 hour listening to my profess her lack of love for me.
As for doing it over, now, yes but I've had a year to grow.
I ended up sending W a txt as she is working tonight. Basically said I overreacted this afternoon and that I was sorry she was experiencing anxiety over Retro. I said I think it would still be a good idea.
We shall see. No attachment to outcome. I can handle it.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09