You may have accept the fact that this is the way she is. Be careful trying to please her cause you can't.

Also don't fall for the trap of if she sees me doing ok then she will feel better about moving on. Much of what works is counter intuitive. You taking care of your issues allows her to shift focus off from you and eventually look at how she contributed to the problems. Thats the hidden message behind DB.

Be very careful of this situation with the house. There are many people on this very board who regret moving out or away from their families. Everything you do from this point sets the president for how things will work if you do get a D. Just keep that in mind when it comes to custody, child support, alimony, etc.


Last edited by C-Bart; 01/21/10 06:28 AM.
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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09