[quote]Try asking yourself what is it within you that has allowed this lack-of-sex pattern to be created in your life? You might be surprised at what you find out.
It's obvious at this point. I have chosen to stay with my wife up to this point.
When we first met, she was very interested in sex. But her interest waned in steps after each childbirth, and further around menopause. This is quite normal, even common. Her interest at this point is zero. And perhaps unlike some couples who struggle with libido mismatches, I find it a turn-off to have sex with someone who is doing it totally out of a sense of duty. It might be OK for a short while, or as an exception. But if it's the only kind of sex I'll ever have for the rest of my life, I'm not interested.
As for what kind of women I attract in my personal life, ironically, they tend to be very intelligent, attractive, succesful women who want or already have long-term stable relationships.
