Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

gucci,

great points. Only love for her and my sons is stopping me. I would rather us be together but I am sure that I could easily make it without her.

I will have to rethink this again. I know that she has affaired down in a big way, so it would be her loss. I just need to figure out how to convey that message.

One bright side: I have gone and done a few things that I have always wanted and she has said that it is nice that I can go live it up while she is broke and at home (OM will not take her out). This has shown her that I will live life without her.

I love rappeling, climbing, my motorcycle, visiting friends, dance class, and soon I will try skydiving. I am not going to just wait for her, but I do want to be available when she is ready.