I’m so upset, and can’t even function right now. All my friends tell me it’s time for me to go talk to a lawyer. It appears my DB’ing has not worked )-:
mb28, On the contrary, I think your DBing is working just fine. Remember, don't believe anything they say and only half of what you see. It is time to see a lawyer but don't give up on your H or your M. You are saying and doing the right things, your validating, and actually you are setting some boundries by telling him to stop telling you what you think and feel. That is verbal abuse right from the textbook and you don't stand for it, the only thing I would have done different is turn and walk away which is so hard to do. I know, we love our spouses no matter how bad they treat us. We have to love them enough to show them tough love back and that means not letting them abuse us. I be willing to turn our backs on them. We just got to give it time to work. Hang in there, be strong for your children, be strong for YOU!!! You can do this!
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
