Hi Silver Fox- I am sorry to see that you are in the same sitch! Thank you for recommending "He's Just Not That Into You". So far, the "Why Men Love Bitches" has been very enlightening! When H and I first met, he is the one that did all the pursuing. On our wedding night he said "you are finally mine"! This book hits it right on! I think after he left the first time, I did become a doormat and have been one for 9yrs!!! I was afraid he'd leave again! Wow! All the range of emotions and all the light bulbs that go on during this process!
Aver-good to hear from you again! You are right! I don't want H to be too comfortable!
I am so thankful for this site and all of you! Thankyou!
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