I stand by what I told her. I want her, I do not need her and financially I would be better off without her.
I know YOU think that when you told her that, it was some type of epithany to HER... I realize you think you got through to her with that great stance and wonderful line....
Want the truth?
It meant nothing. I hate to bust your bubble. Telling a woman you don't need her, but want her while she is seeing you and another man is silly and senseless and means nothing. It only means something to YOU. You are thinking. "I guess I told her".. You actually are showing her the exact oposite.. WEAKNESS. That you ARE and WILL put up with her having you and another guy at the same time. That shows more that you NEED her than it does that you don't need her. NO? You ARE still hanging with her aren't you? Exactly my point if you say yes. So where is your ACTION that you can LIVE without Her? It isn't there.
You want to know when that will mean something to her?
When you LIVE it to her. When you pull back from her by showing her with ACTION that you won't share your wife with another man and give HER time to decide. That maybe YOU are done. Maybe YOU need some time to think.....
THAT is when you will give her the message that you CAN live without her. YOU are NOT giving her that message just because you told her some line you thought was good to you. You are mistaken and have taken that way out of context and way of of importance to the truth.
