I know i am not perfect for giving advice but my kids are 7 & 9 and when i talk to them on the phone they know that something is wrong with mommy and daddy. They can tell something is not right and will start to ask questions. IMO trying to shield to keep them from hurting will only hurt them more in the long run. Of course you have to base what you tell them on their age and maturity levels but you have to be truthful to your kids as best as you can. (No need for details) but you have to be honest and truthful.
Again, i am sorry you find yourself here with all of us and hope i can help if it is only just a little bit.
Taking it day by day
Me:33 Wife:32 M: 6/26/99 D:8 S:6 Bomb: 8/08 PA MC/IC: 8/08-7/09 Bomb: 12/26/09 Contact OM(I need to work on me) In Limbo
