Well I haven't quit smoking yet,but cut way the heck back and taking chantix.

Have 7 habits and audio on my ipod,confused about the principle part,but what stood out is "independence."

I guess wife went to see the shrink i am seeing. It was guarded I'm sure. More justification.

I have a 2 out of 10 chance she'll take another look before it's too late, what the heck does too late mean anyway?!

giving her space....

going to divorce support group, the shrink, reading,etc.,and marriage counseling.

there is somethings i am not going to be able to change about myself,but i think i know what i can.