One thing you need to think about is conversations about OM when she is with OM.

I feel it is highly disrespectful. I set the boundary that she was to not communicate with him when in the house.
So she would go for walks and talk to him. Which ment I could snoop for 20 minutes. And snoop you better be doing. For you are uncovering secerts.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!