I like it! So much of it sounds familiar. As far as the D paperwork, in my mind that is a decision that you will have to make on your own. My gut reaction is that if you can stop the contact with him, it will become less important to you, at least for a while. It seems to me that it might be that you have been seeing the D as the way to cut off contact, which is clearly what you you need to do. Maybe there is another way!
