Wow. That's the first time I've ever heard someone say that they'd be okay with an OW as long as their good with their kids. That's pretty big hearted of you.

Right now his being generous money-wise is just that - a payoff. It seems like he's buying you out. As a man, if I wanted to see my kids I would do it myself and not depend on my spouse to do it for me. It may sound a little superficial, but it sounds like he's getting off scott-free and just needs to sign a check to feel better about himself.

Good for you though.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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