ML, You don't have even a twinge for your X?

I find that when I see him, which is less frequently, I do have some feelings that come back, esp. if he seems to be getting his act together, which is attractive.

That is partly the reason why I do not want to have contact w/him any more--the feelings begin to bubble up. Some anger, some affection and sadness.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D