I find that when I see him, which is less frequently, I do have some feelings that come back, esp. if he seems to be getting his act together, which is attractive.
That is partly the reason why I do not want to have contact w/him any more--the feelings begin to bubble up. Some anger, some affection and sadness.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D