Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Thanks you dbs. I needed a save and I had people coming to the rescue today. As I have stated, I will not initiate a talk but I really see it happening, initiated by her.

What is the best way to respond to what I anticipate hearing: "I don't know if I can get to place where I am willing to try again on our M" and possibly the infamous "I love you but am not in love with you". Do I just tell W that I understand how W got to this point? I know better than to beg or plead or talk about the past, but I don't know really how to best respond to the first quote which she has said a few times to me in the past.

I also think that if I bring up the fact that I was there for her during the suicide and intially she came to me, I think the response will be that she let her guard down a little because it was stressful and comfortable for a moment, but then she remembered everything from the past. So I wont go there either.