Stuck, before the past 2 weekends SG's H hadn't seen the kids for 8 weeks. What she is doing IS for the kids. There is no reason to alienate him from them.

What's wrong with her gently easing in the transition and help him out with seeing the kids. I don't see a problem with her stepping up and DOING THE RIGHT THING. Why should the kids suffer, especially since he is doing right by her regarding the finances. I'm not say she do this indefinitely.

Also, if he has "run away" this gives SG an opportunity to touch base and for H to see her 180's... if she doesn't do this he will never see the changes in her.

There is dual-purpose to this tactic. Hope this explains things.

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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