Hi Avermont, good tip to not get overdressy; I have been doing the same but of course I have regular contact (believe me, it doesn't hurt any less ). Cutter and I disagree about the bill paying but I'd take his advice on how to dress! And on buying new clothes if you feel like it! And being civil about change in address thing.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004