It may not have been DB perfect however it was Serenity perfect and quite frankly I am done with the mind games he tries to play.
I say it's DB perfect BECAUSE:
1. It's DEFINITELY a 180; 2. It sets a clear boundary about what crap you will listen to and what you'll put up with; 3. You let go of what he thought or how he'd respond (can I get a detached here?); 4. You weren't pursuing.
I'd say that's pretty textbook, and INCREDIBLY healthy for YOU.
You're kind of my hero right now!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!