I'm in 33 yrs. I'd also agree with doing nothing. On our 30th after she'd done the WAW for the 2nd time, I got a gift and she saw it as trying to control her. It goes against what we feel and believe, but so does the M and our W going south.
Be kind, but hard to find kinda thing. Nothing ruined or fixed in a few days.
Listen to the advice given here. Most of it is right on!
