Not Me...Ever part 2

[Serenity13]

(((Friends)))

It is done -

Hubby responded to my email above with blameshifting and projection - Still lying even though I called him on it...

He was hoping to buy a couple of more weeks however I wouldn't relent until I got the answers I wanted...

The PO assigned to our S is on vacation and she called H this morning apparently letting him know it would be at least 2-3 weeks before the paperwork could get moved through the system - I in turn have been dealing with the PO in charge who took maybe 4 hours to get the change done.

I emailed H and let him know S was free and clear to come to him. We got into it earlier when he called me at work and again reiterated about what a great Dad he is and how S will be much better off with him etc...

He had the nerve to tell me that he knows how to set boundaries where our S is concerned - I went off - Let him know right then and there he wouldn't know what a boundary was if it walked up and slapped him in the jaw.

He stated he would know where S was going to be 24/7 and he had something added into his cell phone tracking him (without his knowledge)...

Told me if I had that I should have gone and gotten him whenever he was where he shouldn't be - I stated that is hard seeing as he left me without a car -

He says he bought shoes and clothes for S because he had a hole in his pants when he saw him - I stated it was a luxury to buy clothes when he cut us off financially. (FYI - My S is 14 - All his clothes have holes in them because he buys them that way - DUH!)

He then goes on and on about how I took more money then normal right before Christmas and he had to cancel his Dr.s appt. so that is why he changed his bank and according to his lawyer (who apparently he got the number from the back of a Cheerios box) he doesn't have to pay child support or spousal support because "We aren't divorced honey" (his words) - Wrong Answer -

(Here is where I hit my stride - Because before when I was answering, it was based on emotions once again) - "According to my lawyer as well as the state of Florida, abandoning your family isn't illegal (a form of child abuse though) however cutting them off financially is illegal - If I was the b***h you claim me to be, you would be sitting in a jailcell right now with your bank account frozen. Your child support is about $1400.00 a month with you now being behind 6 months and counting. Had you been smart about this, you would have left it with me taking about $200.00 every 2 weeks."

He had the nerve to tell me he didn't abandon us because he lives an hour away.

He also once again said the OW doesn't live with him - So I backed him into the corner - Asked him why our S had met her when that was the only stipulation I have given him - His response - She happened to drop by the other night when S was there - I responded to him - You should have let her know your S was there and she would have to come back at another time however you just couldn't be the bad guy once again and instead of respecting my only request, you stomped all over it.

Once he heard I had a lawyer and what my lawyer had said, his whole tone changed - Then he was nice and sweet and no longer snarky -

To late, I ended the conversation by stating I had an appointment and said bye and hung up on him - No more I love you's - I DIDN'T WAIT FOR THE I LOVE YOU!!!! Can I get a mental high five?

So - Veterans - How did I do?