To answer your question about financial separation...I guess that's being worked on in the divorce..there will be temporary orders coming up soon. For now, H spends his own(business') money for everything except food/gas which he charges to our joint account(all of which comes from my paycheck)...I'm not sure what kind of logic he's using to think I should pay for his gas and food right now, but since I make alot more money than him its OK for now...The divorce will probably be final in May or June...
Still plugging along.
Part of his internal struggle/fear is can he support himself on his own, having his own business...So far he's not making enough to live on, just by himself...when he has the girls part-time it will be worse and I will have to pay child support-the amount has yet to be determined....
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.