"What I am doing is making sure my kids spend time with their dad."

It's not your job to keep everyone happy. Does he want to spend time with them? If so, then fine, let him make the arrangements. There's a fine line between being amicable and being a doormat.

Let me put it to you this way. If he was seeing someone else and you knew the person would be at his house, would you still happily take the kids to his place? Would you happily pass your kids along to let OW play with them?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER