H has stated that he wants a trial separation and that he hasn't made any final decisions about the future. What would asking him to remove his stuff accomplish other than pushing him out the door and making him think that I'm OK with divorcing? How does that make it easy for him to come back, assuming that he has a change of heart eventually?
Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
And yes, it is important to addresses the credit card. Why is it not his responsibility
It's both of our responsibility and the reality is that he doesn't have money in the bank to pay it off. He is working (too) hard and the current financial crisis was one of the last straws for him. He has personal debt too.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
