I know at this point she is not considering reconciling. But things can change. If she does choose to go with you, you might consider a Retrouvaille weekend rather than MC. It is a very concentrated program for changing your communication with your partner. You don't have months to devote to MC. You could get a lot out of one weekend with this program, and if you can continue with the 6 follow-up sessions, so much the better. If not, the weekend is a wonderful experience all by itself. See www.helpourmarriage.org for more information.
