R22 - I hear what you say about IC, but my WAW of course blames me for driving her to see if there something better out there. For being so emotionally absent that she needed to see if she deserved better. That is her state of mind, not that there is anything wrong with her, at least not that I've ever heard nor seen from her.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11