My SO dropped off our daughter just now and came in and sat down for 5 minutes or so. She seems to be doing more of that lately...sitting down. And she waved bye to me again when she drove off.
When we first split up it was come in, get our daughter, and leave...of course I was begging, pleading, trying to change her mind and such when she would come over. So she was full emotional walled, angry, and resentful.
Now that I'm being more light hearted and relaxed around her, she may feel more able to do the same...but I dont know if that really means anything.