Hi sweetie,

When your H is not living up to his responsibilities, I bet you feel frustrated. I want to suggest that you force him to live up to his responsibilities. Setting a boundary with him is the mechanism to do this. You give him a choice. He either works on the marriage and is there for the family, or you will end it. This is just a snapshot in time. Things always change. A year from now things could be way different if you are continually taking actions.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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