So what snapped you back to reality? Also you say she will realize that I love her if I do it right...Can you give me some examples of what to do or what not to do...She is already upset that I am going to be staying home but this is also the only way I can get the intel plus I am not going to live with someone else, puit them out, and pay her bills...she bounces between saying she wants to roommate it and leaving to her parents...Thank you so much cb for your tough response and wdid for your input and perspective from her side...I look forward to hearing from you.