I agree with blownaway and Greek. WAS's don't want to be told that there's something wrong with them.

If you are talking about a WAS that is coming back and wants to work on the R, there's a thread in the Piecing forum that may be of use:

TOOLS FOR PIECING

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."