Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[brknheart]

Uggh, my friend, whose name is the house in? Either way, bad move, as it seems you know. When it comes down to the legailty of it (and here's where the REAL lies start flying) you will look like a deserter and you wanted the D. I'll bet the farm that gets twisted on you.

The house is in both of our names. I already consulted a lawyer about it before I moved out, legally we both own the house and we both are entitled to 1/2 of it. Regarding abandonment, that only comes into play if its 1 year or more.

I really dont think she is even going to try and come back now. She already has egg on her face for doing it twice already. I feel that her mind was made up a long time ago, for some reason she thought she may change her mind. Its like she is battling to different people inside of her. She opens up and is kind when we are face 2 face. The phone is a different person, cold, mean, and heartless.

Regarding the mental disorder, I choose to want to stay married, even with the problems she has. I know I would have to deal with that the rest of my life and I accept that. One of the guidelines I set when we talked about the possibility of us getting back together was going to MC. I know these things would come out in those sessions, that would scare her off. Lord help it if I wasnt the real problem...