Don't know where to post this.

[MichelleLT]

Sounds like a good C for you. Hope that W has similar success with IC.

When will you move back into the house?

What actions does she have to take before you will agree to try and R? This goes both to your boundaries and actions she will have to take to convince you she is serious. Think over these carefully because you will need to tell these to her - it is not necessarily obvious to her that you want transparency, no contact with OM, etc.)

Until then, what are the boundaries (I'm reiterating what Dudess is saying about the fact that you cuddle and kiss even though you are not "together")?