Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Dudess,

I want the marriage but in the mean time I have been visiting with old friends, working out, and diving back into the business.

Our MC has said that an A is bad but that it is not yet time to call her out on it. W is very defensive and MC is trying to get her to see the error of the A on her own.

IC will help this.

C is very pro-marriage and is a follower of Michelle's.

W does not know this yet and the C does not yet want to tip her hand. C says that IC will help much more than MC right now as W has to realize why she allowed herself to have her A.

C is working with me on my Control issues and has told W that she sees changes in me but knows that it will take more time to make them stick. She told W that I am as open to change now as I have ever been and now is the time for W to ask for any changes she wants or needs.

C being a DB follower helps a lot and she is very pro-marriage but is playing those cards close to her chest to not alienate my W.