Thanks ST...at the time we decided the visits I was a sick mess. BUT YOU ARE NOT A SICK MESS NOW... Baby was only 4 months old and I just wanted to make sure he didn't get to take her at all..I wasn't even thinking about times etc. We decided the times in mediation and the mediator wrote up the papers. It will cost me money for my attorney to do his job as well as any filing fees with the court. That is if everything went as planned and exh didn't complain. In that case it would be higher. I am barely making my bills now.
Exh is now 17 days late with his first half of CS this month and 2 days late on the 2nd. He splits them up into 2 payments. He said he will bring both checks by tomorrow. They are later and later. I
WHICH IS EXACTLY WHY YOU HAVE TO GET THE GARNISHMENT....YOUR 'NICE' APPROACH IS GETTING YOU NOWHERE BUT INTO DEBT - AND NOWHERE IN THE R EITHER....STICK UP FOR YOU D AND YOURSELF NOW...as for going back to your L, I don't oppose that. I simply say, start with taking control over your life. If you spend some money now, it'll save you money in the long run AND tons of heartache. I believe if the mediator or you had involved a strong L in the first place, it would have saved you money in the long run and you'd not have this stress in your life. What would that be worth? know the first one will always be late as he has his rent and truck payments due on the first not to mention anything else. I know that isn't my problem but it will be chronically late. Whether I tell him or not about the garnishment he will blow his lid! They will take a 1/4 of his paycheck each week. He wont be happy!
He won't be happy? Gee, and he was being so nice and all. Making you and d a priority and everything...oh wait, I'm confusing him with what you WISH... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
