Well, I spent all night last night going through tutorials and all morning today as well. I am still going through them and I have to say my brain is starting to fry a little. lol. But keeping on I shall.
I have had brief seconds of thinking about W and wondering how she is doing. I have also had brief seconds of just wishing I could call her and say hi. But I won't as I am pretty sure she has no interest or she would call me and say hi.
I wonder if she knows that I still love her. Certainly she has to.
Back to studying.
Kevin
Yes she knows you still love her, so no, she does not wonder. Do not call her. Stay on track. Don't lose focus. It's been a problem for you since all this began. So don't repeat that mistake. If there's a chance for a recon, it starts with you being a man on your own two feet - so I agree with your approach handling it on your own. To me, CG is right on this issue. It's part of just handling your own responsibilities and has nothing to do with your w, kids or her or you and OPs. It is not the same as lying and pretending to be going to work when you're at the unemployment office.No one is suggesting you lie. That would be another matter. If she asks, tell her the truth and that you're handling it. No problem, happens to lots of folks lately.
But why on earth should you volunteer a "defeat" to her that may not effect her or the kids if you find something else? Would you tell her every time you get chewed out at work- B/C "it's honest"...? No, it's not needed info. I don't get that. I just don't see it as equivalent to her bringing OM into your kids' lives AND pretending it's not what it is.. Just my .02 but I think CG is spot on. Anyhow, again, good luck,
J-
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